gift guide: support + get well

THERE ARE some gifts you wish with all of your heart you didn’t have to give. My little circle of friends has endured some serious health doozies lately. From cancer to surgery [LOTS of surgery] to ‘just’ general illness, my gals have been through a lot. So I’ve had some good practice now at putting together packages for friends and loved ones who just really need to feel the heartfelt love and support you’re putting out.

WHEN YOUR special people are struggling with treatment or illness or any bumpy patch in their life, it’s hard to know what to say and what they might need. If you know them well and can ask, maybe they’ll tell you [if they know themselves]. Otherwise, you can never go wrong with a few heartfelt + beautiful things to pamper them. Just about anything given intentionally and with love that makes them feel extra special or grounded or cozy can really make a difference when someone is in need of some extra propping up. Pick one or bundle a few to really spoil them. Also check out my posts on Blankets and Clean Beauty for lots more ideas on helping your special person feel extra loved-on. And don’t forget about any kiddos in the house who might not be getting quite the same attention they’re used to during a family illness. A little acknowledgment goes a long way. xo

Support + Get Well Gifts

+ Sunday Citizen has taken the incredible health benefits of weighted blankets to another level by adding thousands of bits of healing amethyst, clear quartz and rose quartz crystals to their insanely soft version. So you get the feeling of a snuggly hug with the added bonus of nature’s powerful healing energy. + $269

+ Radiant Malas are handmade in Boulder, CO with love and intention by two women who lovingly hand-select each crystal bead + unique guru bead for their specific vibrational powers. They over-hand knot each one-of-a-kind necklace and make the hand-tied tassels, too. + from $128

+ SKiVYs’ soft and stylish dresses have a specially-designed built-in bra that’s made for both comfort and function. The perfect combination of feminine styling and legitimate support leaves you looking put together and ready for the day while still feeling really comfy + cozy, which can be super useful if you have lots of visitors checking in. Use code AFLUTTER15 for 15% off your purchase. + from $68

+ When skin and hair are extra sensitive, a pure silk pillowcase can make a big difference. The slippery nature of silk’s natural fibers reduce overall friction, protecting extra delicate hair and skin. Plus they just feel really nice. Lilysilk’s Pure Silk Pillowcases are also OEKO-TEX certified, so you can rest knowing you’re not laying on gross chemicals. They’re available in standard and king sizes in lots of colors. They also have gorgeous Silk Sheets if you want to be covered from head to toe. + from $39

+ Linda Hsiao hand-makes these Daruma Wishing Dolls in LA. You color in one eye while focusing on a wish or goal, then set it somewhere where you’re reminded of your goal. When you reach it, you color in the other eye and say ‘thank you’ to your Daruma. + from $36

+ The Tea Spot’s Everest Tea Tumbler steeps your brew while you’re on-the-go or on your way to the doctor and then keeps it nice and warm for hours. And to make your gift even more impactful, The Tea Spot donates 10% of all sales in-kind to cancer survivors and community wellness programs. + $33.95

+ Big Heart Tea Co sources their teas directly with a strict focus on quality, equity for farmers and environmental stewardship. You can shop by intention, choosing teas that benefit inflammation, calming nerves or soothing digestion. Or just pick the ones that sound yummiest. + from $9.99

+ Topdrawer’s Japanese House Shoes are a stylish and super soft way to keep those frozen toes away. They are totally unisex, reversible, machine washable, hand-sewn in Japan and come in lots of different color+ print + material combinations. + from $59

+ Puzzles can be super meditative and relaxing. Jiggy’s puzzles are extra gorgeous because they’re all designed by emerging female artists around the world. They also come with special glue so you can frame your hard-earned piece of beautiful artwork, so it’s really two gifts in one. You can even make a custom Personalized Puzzle with a meaningful photo or drawing. + from $40

+ Keep that nurturing + healing hot tea flowing at the perfect temp with a Fellow Corvo EKG Electric Kettle. It’s fast and has variable temps and lots of control so at least you can be in full control of something. Plus it’s stunning to look at. Add a pretty Carter Move Mug for outings, too. + $189

+ Sunday Citizen’s Robes + Wraps come in various fabrics that are all designed for ultimate super soft comfort. This Snug Ribbed Cardigan is part robe, part cardigan and just the kind of super cozy thing you want to snuggle up with when you’re not feeling yourself [or even if you are]. It’s made of extra soft microfiber, comes in 3 pretty colors and is totally machine washable, so go ahead and wear it everyday if it feels good. + $140

+ Your special person can wear your support all the time with Jax Kelly’s pretty Mineral Point Studs [love mine]. This Smoky Quartz pair is for ‘protection’ and there are several other energizing stones to choose from. Rose Quartz for ‘love’ and Amethyst for ‘healing’ and Amazonite for ‘hope.’ They’d all be a beautiful and meaningful way to say ‘I’m always here for you.’ + $34

+ Prima’s CBD Unwind Bath Gems detoxify, purify and moisturize, making them a perfect companion when you’re not feeling your best [or even if you are]. They melt away tension and stress leaving you restored and maybe just a bit more prepared for what’s next. Gift one or a bundle of four. + from $15

+ Talking Out of Turn’s Selfie Care Kits are perfect for spoiling teens or the young at heart. There are 6 different cute themes to choose from and they all include a mug with a cute saying, a stone face roller, a weighted unscented eye mask and neck wrap [love mine] and an inspirational letterpress card. It’s wrapped up all cute in a sweet box and ready to brighten someone’s day. + $70

+ When you love a little who’s under the weather, it can be so easy to bring a smile with an Ooly Happy Pack full of bright, fun treasures to keep them occupied. They come in lots of different themes to appeal to just about any kiddo. This can also be a great little gift to acknowledge a babe with an ill family member who might not be getting as much attention as they’re used to. + from $16.95

+ From joggers to hoodies, if you want comfy clothes, Vuori is your one-stop shop. The line is designed for performance, but is just as happy taking it easy, so it’ll be ready for action once your special person is up and running again. It’s unfathomably soft and made to be lived in. My husband and I are both huge fans. +

+ Le Bon Shoppe’s Cloud Socks are like a squishy warm hug for your feet. I really love them. They’ll keep all the frozen toes away. + $14

+ Ilia Beauty’s Lip Wrap Treatment Mask is heavenly. It has Papaya Enzymes to buff away the rough or flaky skin on super dry lips, which makes way for the magical moisturizing ingredients to sink in. It is also super neutral so it won’t bother people who might be feeling extra sensitive to taste or smell. + $26

+ Slumberkins are therapist-designed to help kids navigate tricky emotional challenges. Each set comes with a ‘Snuggler’ and a book that teach kids how to name and manage their stress and anxiety. Alpaca is specifically aimed at ‘stress relief’ and Fox is for ‘family change.’ They’re a beautiful gift for any child, especially those facing illness. + $48

+ Sometimes it’s tough to focus on looking at a book when you’re not feeling your best, so gift your special person unlimited entertainment they can listen to instead with an Audible membership. They’ll have access to millions of titles to keep them occupied. Gift anywhere from month to a year. + from $15

+ A Kindle Paperwhite is basically ALL the books in one for endless options. You can gift it with or without a Kindle Unlimited subscription that provides access to a million books, audiobooks and magazines. It’s great for home, on-the-go or while waiting for appointments. And it’s now waterproof, which is such a bonus. + from $129.99

+ Tending to plants is said to help people feel calm and happy. The Sill ships high-quality house plants in chic pots all around the country, making them so easy to gift. In addition to giving your special people something beautiful to look at, you’ll also be nurturing their soul, which is a gift in itself. + from $21

+ Warmies stuffed animals are insanely soft + cuddly as you’d expect. But they’re also filled with dried French lavender so you can warm them up in the microwave and they’re perfectly weighted for extra soothing. + from $14.99

+ I just love these little ceramic hearts handmade by artist, Tere Hurst, of Little Rabbit Ceramics and I love to gift them, too. They’re just a sweet little reminder that you’re thinking of your special person. They can also keep one in their pocket to rub like a worry stone when they’re feeling anxious. + $22 for 12

+ Help your special people reduce stress and clear negative energy with pretty smudge sticks from Wild Fire Apothecary. They have white sage, palo santo and sandalwood ropes to clear the air and bring calm. Wild Fire also has a bunch of really pretty cement dishes and wooden bowls to burn and display your treasures in. + from $1.99

+ Handmade in Oakland, Rheal’s Concrete Hands are ready to hold special little treasures, just like you want to hold and support your special people while they’re struggling. Pop a little treasure [like these hearts I love] inside so they know you’re there for them. + from $18

+ A pretty hand-painted Moglea Notebook provides a really special place to record thoughts or keep important notes. There are several designs to choose from and each one is unique. + from $20

+ Give your special person a wearable reminder that you’re thinking of them with one or a few colorful handmade beaded Ubuntu Life LOVE Bracelets. In addition to being super cute + sweet, they also provide meaningful work for Ubuntu’s ‘Maasai Maker Mums.’ + from $10

+ Sometimes you just want to to hide behind something soothing and beautiful and rest your aching bits for a while. Handmade in KS, these heart-shaped eye pillows are made from organic cotton and filled with organic flaxseed and lavender so you can use them hot or cold. + $29

+ A cozy wrap can be super comforting, like a soft hug. Zestt’s Organic Cotton Dreamsoft Travel Scarf is versatile and SO soft + so cozy for snuggling up at home, on the go or at long appointments. + $59

+ A friend who just had his own whole series of health journeys said reading Man’s Search for Meaning while he was down changed his life. And judging by the more than 46,000 reviews, he’s not alone. It has long been lauded as one of the most influential books of our time, sharing inspired thoughts on suffering and inner strength and perspective. There’s also a Young Adult Edition for the teens you love. +

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